Families "don't know what they don't know" when it comes to their options for memorializing the loss of their pet.
An epitaph that truly sums up a life!
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As a pet parent, it's so difficult to instinctively know what the options are to honor a precious little pet when they die. In our North American culture, it's just not natural for us to say "it's a beautiful day today - let's go get educated on our death care options." We just don't do that.
So when a family turns to you for guidance during this time, don't assume that they know what they want. Rest assured, they, more than likely, DO NOT have a clue as to what they want nor what their options are.
When you are guiding a family, don't hesitate to educate them on all of their options. If your organization has done it's job of having a variety of memorialization items available for a family to see, then take this opportunity to educate them on these options - as well as other ideas for them to consider. For example, do you point out cremation jewelry and let them know that these vessels are also a good place to hold a bit of all of the pet parent's fur-kids hair? Or to consider a keepsake urn for a loving grandparent? Or maybe a large urn that can be used as a family urn - while all of the pets lived under one roof in life, let them rest under one roof, i.e. in one urn, in death.
How are you guiding your families? Be a resource. Help them in an area where they truly "don't know what they don't know."
Because if you are like me, a really bad day for me is when a family says to me "I wish you would've told me about THAT - I would've loved to have done THAT. But now it's too late."
Be their "companion for their journey."