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February 14th, 2010

    Honoring Your Story

    The candles represent such warmth as our precious pets are honored.

    Honoring the Precious Pets
    Honoring the Precious Pets
    The memorial service at the Center for Loss was so special.  To hear the beautiful stories of those precious little pets was so touching.  As everyone took their turn, it was obvious that the grief journeys continue.  Grieving the loss of a wonderful little pet will always be a part of our life.  In life they touched us and in death they will always be in our hearts.  It's such an honor - to honor those stories.


    January 22nd, 2010

      How to decide on the final arrangements for your pet

      When your pet dies, what are the final arrangement options that are right for you?

      Giving Honor
      Giving Honor
      One of life's inevitable events, the death of their beloved pet, will leave any pet parent reeling with what the options are.  Knowing these options before being forced in to making decisions will ease the anxiety and provide peace of mind.  Knowing that these final arrangements were made in the best interest of the entire family will certainly be comforting.
      Basically, there are two options to consider when a pet dies: burial and cremation.  Each of these choices will come with aspects that need to be considered.
      Burial -
      1)  Will you bury your pet in your back yard or in a pet cemetery?
      2)  If you are considering burial in your back yard, is this legal in your community, county, development, etc?
      3)  If you bury in your back yard, what will happen when you move from this home?
      4)  If you bury in your back yard or in a pet cemetery, and you move from this locale, does that concern you to have your pet interred and left here?
      5)  If you are going to bury in a pet cemetery, educate yourself on every aspect of management of the cemetery,...  care of the grounds, care of the burial sites, care of the deceased body, is there a chance the cemetery will close or be moved, etc.
      6)  If you are going to consider burial in your back yard, will you want a casket to protect your pet's body?  Will you want a marker?

      Cremation
      1)  Will you want to have your pet's cremains returned to you?
      2)  If you don't want the cremains returned to you, ask your veterinarian or cremation provider for a group, or communal, cremation.
      3)  If you opt for a group cremation, is it important for you to know that the cremains have been buried respectfully, versus being put in the garbage?  If this is important, ask your veterinarian or cremation provider where these ashes will be buried.
      4)  If you are going to have your pet's cremains returned to you, most families want confirmation that the ashes are those of only their pet.  Ask your cremation provider for a "private" cremation - a cremation process whereas your pet is the only pet in the cremation chamber.  An "individual" cremation is where there is more than one pet in the cremation chamber and their bodies are divided by a fireproof spacer.  An "individual" cremation will more than likely be less expensive than a private cremation but comes with the understanding that there will be a commingling of ashes due to the force of the heat of the cremation process.
      5)  If you are going to have a private cremation, ask your cremation provider about their body identification process.  Most companies use a "tagging" process that will have a unique identification number assigned to your pet, staying with your pet throughout the entire cremation process to insure the safety and security of the body.
      6)  For many cremation companies that work directly with veterinary hospitals, deceased pets will be placed into plastic bags and put into freezers, being picked up at these clinics on a route.  If this is not what you want to have happen to your pet, find a pet funeral organization that will pick your pet up immediately, treating the body with dignity and respect.

      While many of us do not like to think about the death of our beloved and precious pets, educating yourself on your options before a highly emotional day will give you much peace of mind.  

      January 12th, 2010

        Creating Memories

        What to do today to create memories for tomorrow

        Today's technology makes it so much easier to secure "memories!"  As I look back on the life that I shared with Mico - I am so grateful for the photos!  But, I miss the fact that I did not have an imprint of her little nose.  Did you know that an animal's nose print is like our thumb print?  All noses are unique and depict the individuality of each pet!  Gosh, how many times did that cold little nose nudge me - to be held, to be petted, to be comforted,....  And, how about a video?  One that not only shows your pet in action but one where you can catch that darling little bark?  Or that persistent little meow!  Or the fact that when Mico was feisty and wanted something, and certainly to get my attention, the barks came in a series of three!  Everytime - without fail!  
        Yes, in her death, I am thankful that I have the memories.  And, almost seven years later, I can close my eyes and still hear those three little barks.  But to have had those recorded forever and ever, oh my,...
        Yes, Mike The Dog,  Ellie Mae, Crisco, and Rudy - that is exactly why Mommy follows you everywhere, recording all that I can!  I will have THAT forever,..  

        January 6th, 2010

          Making A Tribute Special

          How do you sum up the life shared with your special pet to create a truly unique and special memorialization piece.

          My Little Rudy Poo!
          My Little Rudy Poo!
          For so many families, when they are designing an urn or a special memorial piece, the whole concept can become overwhelming as one decides how to personalize this beautiful memento.  Whether it be an engraving on an urn, rock or marker, or a jewelry piece, the personalization should be as unique as your special pet was to you and the life that you shared.  While many people will automatically think of the birth date/gotcha date and the death date as being important, I would also encourage you to look beyond these dates and think about "The Dash" in between those dates and what that meant to you and your family.
          When you look at this memorialization item, what is it you want to remember about the life that you shared with your pet?  Is it a nickname? As it is with my little precious babies, I have my Rudy Poo, my Ellie Smelly Burke, my Whit, Junky Trunk, and numerous other names that just make me smile!
          Or is it a description of your pet that, when read, will bring back a flood of memories?  I have my "Peter Pan mixed with Dennis The Menace," "Master Blaster," "My One Eared Little Pussy Cat" and so many others that just warms my heart!
          So when you're taking part in this very emotional piece of summing up an entire life in a few words, think about it,....  how will you look beyond the dates and how will you want to remember "The Dash?"  

          December 30th, 2009

            For the New Year, Please Give Me Strength

            With the New Year, my grief journey continues,....

            Looking Back,... and remembering.
            Looking Back,... and remembering.
            Dear Father, as I look up, I see Baby New Year staring directly at me.  With the New Year, I am reminded that another year is approaching, taking me further away from that day in April, 2002, and the loss of Mico, my precious little pet.  My mind knows that it has been almost 7 years but my heart says that it feels like only yesterday.  Yesterday because I can still so vividly remember those last days, hours, minutes and seconds as I saw a love in my life slip away.  I know that she's in your hands, Dear Father, and is enjoying her life in heaven.  Hold her tight in your love.  Give me strength as I still feel her love and miss seeing her daily.  In Your Name, I pray,... Amen.
            December 23rd, 2009

              Remembering our loves,....

              Giving thanks for the memories,...

              Holding close the memories,...
              Holding close the memories,...
              She hated it when I made her do this!  But, being the good sport that she was, she'd always oblige!  However, there was the pay off - she would always get extra treats for playing Mommy's crazy dress-up games!  Yes, she won too! Mico, forever Mommy's Little Baby Girl!
              Take this time to remember those special loves that have been in your life,... what a beautiful time to pay tribute to them, to thank the Creator for the wonderful gifts that he has given us in the unconditional love of all of the little creatures.  And, the love of our Creator to continue to give us strength as we will forever remember and miss these special little furry friends,... in their life we find love.  In their death, we hold onto these memories and the warmth of their love from above.
              A peaceful holiday season to all of you,...  Here's to the many blessings that you have had in your life,...


              December 4th, 2009

              Remember the Reason for the Season!

              I am so thankful for their love,....

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              Mommy's Christmas Gift!
              I am so thankful as I remember the reason for the season,... the love that I get, especially from my little pets is priceless and such a reminder that this season is about love.  Even better from my wonderful furry children - their unconditional love! What more do I need?
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              December 2nd, 2009

              Do their spirits stay with us?

              When we are so connected to our pets - I just know that they stay with us!

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              Her spirit's still strong!
              Well, consider this odd - but I know in my heart that Mico is still at my house.  Especially at night - when I feel her presence with me in the bed.  Ah, the feeling of love, that wonderful unconditional love!
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              November 13th, 2009

              Do our pets talk?

              Ellie is such a little lady,... every time I do something for her, I can hear her gratitude!

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              My Little Lady
              My Ellie Mae is such a lady - even down to the smallest of tasks like filling a water bowl, she never misses an opportunity to say "Thank You!"
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              November 6th, 2009

              The Unconditional Love - I Love It!

              It sure does make any day better, doesn't it?

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              My Little Love
              Isn't it amazing that the love of your pets will make any day better?  There's not a better "medicine" in the world!
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              October 31st, 2009

              How Much Can We Love?

              Do our hearts ever get too full of love?

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              Momma's New Little Love
              When Mico died, I wondered if my heart could ever love again.  Or at least love another precious little furry baby as much as I loved her.  I just added the fourth "fur-child" to the house - and my heart is overflowing with love!
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              October 6th, 2009

              "Anthropomorphism",... are we guilty?

              Is this you? I know it's me!

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              Clearly My Little Man
              "Anthropomorphism" - Attributing human characteristics to animals.  Guilty on all counts!  They are like little people to me - and I'm proud to admit it!
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              October 1st, 2009

              Our time together is short and precious,...

              Where-oh-where does the time go?

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              Blobby Boy - Crisco, My Love!
              The time that we share with our pets is so short,... I look at my little guy who came to live with us six years ago.  But, it seems like yesterday,...
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              September 18th, 2009

              A New Chapter Begins

              The Birth of a New Love

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              This Chapter "Miss Molly"
              A new chapter has began in the lives of a little kitty and her new Mommy.  The start of a relationship that is certainly wrapped in unconditional love and bliss!
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              September 11th, 2009

              The most pure form of love remembered.

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              My very first love - Blackie
              We all remember our first fur love,... Blackie meant the world to my family and to Aunt Lula.  With Aunt Lula's death this week, I was reminded of that special relationship that we all had with Blackie and how she touched so many hearts - all those years ago.
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              August 24th, 2009

              The spirit of a pet's love

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              The unconditional love that we get from our pets will stay with us forever.  The love we shared - the love we lost - will forever be in our hearts.
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              July 31st, 2009

              Honoring Duke,...

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              So proud and full of love
              Today, I received one of the biggest honors I can think of,...   a wonderful and dear family lost their beloved Duke and was having a visitation.  They invited me to join them.  They wanted me to come and say my good-byes to this boy that I was so privileged to be one of the first ones that he met when he came to live in their home from a terrible, terrible start in life.  This big German shepherd boy who came to their home with such a look of defeat and sadness from living in horrendous conditi...
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              July 16th, 2009

              The Second Most Memorable Day For A Pet Parent

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              My Big Sweet Golden Bear - Mike The Dog
              There are three days that every pet parent will always remember,....
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              July 1st, 2009

              Is Death God's Will?

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              I know that I questioned God when Mico died?  Was I really looking for the answer?
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              June 15th, 2009

              How To Be A Companion To A Grieving Heart

              Do you sometimes wonder what you can do to help someone who's grieving? I can help you with that question,...

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              Being a companion to a hurting heart is an honorable role.  It's a role that is not a clinical role but a very spiritual role that requires you as the companion to "just be" with the grieving heart.
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              June 12th, 2009

              Will I Ever Get Over The Death of My Pet?

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              A Playfully Little Girl
              Is it possible to think that you will "get over" the death of a special furry friend?  Absolutely not!
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              June 10th, 2009

              When will my heart let me adopt another pet?

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              When my heart was ready again,.... Crisco Jay Ellis-Burke!
              When will your heart tell you that it's okay to love again?  The first thing that needs to happen is the "mourning work."
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              June 8th, 2009

              Death is not the Enemy

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              My peaceful girl
              Is death the enemy - or is it truly the friend of life?
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              May 27th, 2009

              Celebrating Mico with Two Hearts Business Launch

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              My Soulful Companion!
              The death of a dog launches a business.
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